Clues for the clueless: Okay, so let's say that you feel that you and the object of your wrath pms whatever are going nowhere and you're contemplating doing something. For chrissakes and to preserve the peace, just do it. Don't make any more grand pronouncements that you're bored or whatnot. Lest it cost you more than just several cups of caffeinated worrying unneedlessly. The thing to do is float. Feel the air. Breathe. Just not too much.